A little variety in the bedroom can be nice, but I do understand that new things can be a bit intimidating.  One way to introduce something new into the bedroom is to pick two activities that you think your husband would like and then give him the choice.  “Would you like to do this or that?”  When you pick the two things, you have some say in terms of your comfort zone and he has some choice and will be delightfully enchanted by your desire to try something new.  :)

Come away, my lover, and be like a gazelle or like a young stag on the spice-laden mountains. Song of Songs 8:14  NIV

Be generous! Lori <><