Is there an area of your marriage relationship that you have been unwilling to examine and deal with? Ouch. Yes, it’s a painful thought, but it’s areas like this that will damage your marriage over the long haul. Take the time to pray through and examine the problem. Approach your husband with thoughtful suggestions.  If you need third party help, get it.

FINDING HELP

If you are in an abusive relationship, please seek help immediately. You need to deal with your marriage from a place of safety. http://www.ndvh.org hotline: 1-800-799-7233

The Family and Marriage Counseling Directory
Find a Counselor ~ The American Association of Christian Counselors

Consider also looking in your area for:
Accountability Groups
Couple to Couple Support
Lay Counselors
Lay Support Groups (12-step etc)
Licensed Counselors
Marriage Enrichment Courses
Marriage Mentors
Marriage Coaches
Message Boards
Pastoral Counselors
Prayer Ministries (Theophostic Prayer Ministry, Elijah House, etc.)
Professional Support Groups
Psychiatrists
Psychologists
Self Help Books

Be generous!  Lori <><