We all have habits. We get up, make the bed, get dressed, comb our hair, etc. We have sexual habits as well. We do things in a certain order. We touch certain ways. We spend this much time in foreplay or choose from these three positions.
Go ahead. Break a habit. If you find something you like, make it a new habit. Maybe more foreplay just does it for you. Perhaps reordering what you do makes the bedroom a little more exciting. Experiment and play a little.
Change always comes bearing gifts. Price Pritchett
Be generous! Lori <><
Great advice! I feel like hubby and I have been in a sexual rut for a while. We still enjoy our intimate encounters, but like you said, we’ve developed habits that make it more of a routine than an adventure, and I know a lot of that is my fault. I think I’ll go try to break some habits!
Lori,
Nothing is wrong about habits as long you and your partners agreed with it or maybe loves it..It just a matter of communication..
Cristen Lee
I agree, as this pertains to MY marriage! The sex is great, but pretty predictable. I just sent my hubby a text (he works on the road during the week) and asked him the question you posted about recalling an episode of GREAT sex. It’s already sparked a great a.m. conversation, and I’m pretty sure after thinking on it all week, when he gets home, predictable is not the word I’ll be using. :) Thanks for keeping me thinking.