I have a lot of time around my sweetie. We’ve been living together and working with each other for years and recently we’ve had even more time together.

The one downside for me is that it becomes so normal I can easily check out instead of being present. Paul becomes background noise instead of someone I do life with.

So, I’m trying to find moments where I am really present in relationship and conversation. When we sit outside and enjoy the view, I am present. When we share a meal, I am present. When we talk over plans, I am present.

I encourage y’all to do likewise. Find those situations that can act as a reminder and be aware and present with your sweetie.

Wherever you are be all there. Jim Elliot

• Prayer Prompt: Ask God to help you stay present and engaged with your husband.
• The Romantic Vineyard: Ten Ways to Not Waste This Time in Marriage Take advantage of the time you have together.
• The XY Code: What Do You Want In The New Normal? Drop a few things and add what you really want.
• The Week in Review: Have you …
         … given yourself permission to grieve?
         … chosen to lean into God in this difficult season?
         … looked for ways to bless your man with a little extra care?
         … treated your husband respectfully?
         … refused to compare your marriage to other marriages?
         … made room for changes that might work better in this season?
         … made time to be present with your husband?

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