(Originally posted on September 28, 2017.)

I am a slow processor. It takes a while for me to think things through and come to a decision. I might even want to take a few days to pray and mull over it.

Paul, on the other hand, is lightning fast at assessing all the info and coming to a conclusion. Maybe three seconds.

Neither one of us right or wrong. We tend to be hardwired one way or the other. Both styles come with their strengths and weaknesses. I can make faster decisions and Paul can slow down, but we tend to work better if we go the way we are wired.

It’s a matter of understanding our differences and living together with grace.

Are you a fast or slow processor? Your hubby?

A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences. Author Unknown

• Prayer Prompt: Ask God to help you and your husband understand and work with your differences.
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